False Accusations of Domestic Violence in Family Court

What to do if you’ve been falsely accused of domestic violence in Family Court?

Navigating family court proceedings in California can be challenging, especially when allegations of domestic violence are involved. While it’s crucial to address genuine cases of domestic violence and protect victims, there are times when false accusations are made for various reasons, such as gaining an advantage in child custody or divorce proceedings. At Eric Mercer Law, we provide guidance for individuals falsely accused of domestic violence while emphasizing the importance of respecting and addressing legitimate cases.

Seek Legal Counsel

The moment you are accused of domestic violence, it’s essential to consult with an experienced family law attorney in California. Your attorney will help you understand your rights, legal options, and the potential consequences of the accusations.

Maintain Composure

While it’s natural to feel angry, hurt, and frustrated when falsely accused, it’s crucial to remain composed throughout the legal process. Avoid confrontations and emotional outbursts that could be used against you in court.

Support Your Case

Gather evidence that can support your case. This includes text messages, emails, voicemails, or any other communication that may prove your innocence. Keep a detailed journal of events, noting dates, times, and locations of interactions with the accuser.

If there were witnesses to the alleged incidents or events that can refute the accusations, gather their contact information and statements. Witnesses can play a significant role in disproving false claims.

In California family court, when child custody disputes arise, the paramount consideration is the best interests of the child. If you believe that your relationship with the child is in their best interest, it’s essential to make a compelling case to ensure your rights as a parent are upheld.

Preparing for a Favorable Hearing

Comply with Court Orders:
If the court issues protective orders or restraining orders, it’s crucial to comply with them fully, even if you believe the accusations are false. If emergency child support orders, also explained in the State of California as ex parte, were filed against you, ensure that you are in full compliance with court orders, since violating them can have serious legal consequences.

Maintain a Safe Distance:
To prevent further conflict and allegations, maintain a safe distance from the accuser. Avoid any situation that could potentially escalate tensions.

Be Prepared for Court:
Your attorney will guide you through the legal process, including court appearances. Be well-prepared with your evidence, witnesses, and a clear understanding of your case’s merits.

In some cases, filing counterclaims for defamation or false accusations may be necessary. Your attorney can advise you on the best course of action. During cross-examination, focus on exposing inconsistencies and falsehoods in the accuser’s testimony.


False accusations of domestic violence can have serious repercussions on your personal and legal life. It’s crucial to handle these situations with care, respect, and a focus on the truth. By working closely with an experienced attorney and following the steps outlined above, you can effectively address false accusations and protect your rights in California family court while being sensitive to the importance of addressing legitimate cases of domestic violence.

Get the help you deserve and get answers to your questions about family law cases in California.

The Law Office of Eric Andrew Mercer provides family law attorney services in Sacramento, California. Contact us today online or give us a call at (916) 361-6022. 

About the author 

Eric Mercer

Eric Mercer is the owner and primary attorney at the Law Office of Eric Andrew Mercer based in Sacramento, California, but represents clients all over California. He started his legal career as a patent litigator at an intellectual property law firm in Palo Alto, California. He formed his own law firm in 2009, where his practice includes family law, consumer law, and personal injury. His family law practice focuses on parents’ custody rights and support. His consumer practice focuses on individual and class action litigation involving mortgage loan servicing, foreclosure avoidance options, mortgage origination, foreclosure rescue scams, automobile fraud, and unfair debt collection. His personal injury practice focuses on bicycle and motorcycle accidents. He is experienced in California and federal courts through all phases of litigation, trial and appeal.

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